About the baby separation anxiety

How you think anxiety of separation from my son? Honestly, is absolutely one of the feelings most enchanting I enjoy as a MOM.

I remember when my son was between 8-9 months of age. Like every mother, I could not forget those moments.

Then, often requires more attention from my place of anyone in the House. No matter where he was or that he was holding him, as soon as we have seen, suddenly shouted as if he asks me that thing.

When I got close to him, he abruptly opened his arms and seemed so happy. His cry was stopped at a time. It really was a tacit sense that had experienced.

But also there was time when he acted differently from what you expected. When I went for work, I thought it would hard cry verme leaving him. I hugged him close and kissed his face over and over again.

I said, "Baby, MOM has to go to work now." Eat and drink much, okay? And they have a good NAP. I'll be back. I love you very much. "Bubye."

Sometimes he kept looking at me when I said. I was hoping that you start you crying. But it did not happen. I was wondering why. I later learned that he was interested with the wheels of the car I went in every day.

When the car started to run, my son always kept their eyes on wheels. Watching them spinning must have been very exciting for him. I only smiled, although my heart broke a little. I soothed me to think that it was good for him to be curious of strange things.

My son is an infant who has problem sleeping. Throughout the night in his sleep, he often awoke several times. If I woke up and did not find me close, he would cry out loud, making the panic throughout the House, as if something really bad happens.

When I got into the bedroom, he could crawl towards me, and then I hugged him. I would be quiet then. Breastfeeding really worked to put him back to sleep.

Thank God I decided to breastfeed him so do not occupy the rush to prepare formula during the night. Yes, I decided to breastfeed him in it, although still has formula in times of day.

Perhaps this nursing activity had created the link between us. I enjoyed and yet so far. This could also what did my son did not want to get away from me.

If your baby or child has the same feature that my son has, I am sure that has the same feeling as I do. If you think that the cries of the baby (by being away from TI) bother, remember that it does not last forever.

Separation anxiety is a phase in the development of the child during their first years of life. Almost all children go through this experience. What I can suggest is simply to enjoy these intimate moments before that they are last with the growth of the child.

From what I've heard from my friends about this, you're going to lose the moments. For me, even now, really don't want to far the phase transition.

Wait, wait. There is one thing I would like to share with you that can not think will make your child comfortable. I remember that my friend told me if you are going somewhere, not to forget tell your child you can return. Instead of sneaking out of the House, shaking his hand and saying that ll be back calmed him somehow.